So I was obsessing a little too much about whether or not I should cut my hair so I went ahead and put an end to it all. I chopped off about 5 inches and I feel much, much better.
CUTE! That's about the length I think I'm going for... like you, I'd love too grow it really long, but its just not practical with 4 small children in the household. Here's to being cute in spite of motherhood!