Sunday, June 25, 2006

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

Noah is very much like a roller coaster these days. Up one minute, down the next. His temper is red-hot. But he has a sweet side that can melt you like butter. A few days ago I made this really great Pear Lime Jello. It's more like dessert than a side dish but we eat it as a side dish because that's just the kind of people we are. Anyway, after I had it all mixed up I gave Noah and Denver the bowl to scrape out. Denver was fine until Noah took over the scraping, leaving very little left for Denver to enjoy. So I intervened and told Noah he needed to take turns scraping. To which Noah responded with, "BACK OFF!" Now, all of our boys have gotten a bit mouthy lately and we're trying to correct that so, I immediately went to confiscate the spoon and tell Noah he was done scraping the bowl. Well, when he saw me coming at him he scraped up as much green jello gook as he could on that little spoon of his and. . . he threw it at me. Whoa! Talk about scary. I ended up dragging the boy, kicking and screaming up to his room. Mr. Hyde. . .is that you?

A few hours later, I sat down to feed Caleb a bottle. Noah and Denver were watching television and as I went to sit on the couch I asked if either of them had seen Caleb's silkie. Then I remembered it was upstairs in my bed and said, "Nevermind." Noah immediately jumped up off the couch and said, "I'll get it!" Keep in mind, I didn't even ask him to do it. He just automatically volunteered. So he ran upstairs and not only got Caleb's silkie but Denver's special ble-ble too, just because. Dr. Jekyll returns.

I'm not sure what's happened to or changed in Noah. But it's amazing to me how quickly he can go from anger to pure bliss to anger all over again. Guess it's all just a part of growing up and still being so little all at the same time. Either that or I need to spend a little more time with him--that always seems to do the trick for Noah. A little bit of extra TLC.

posted by Shana  # 10:24 PM

Comments:
I'm glad Noah's not a girl. Can you imagine what he'd be like as a PMSing teen? Betcha the mood swings mellow out once he settles into his school routine this fall.

 

Shana, Shana, Shana...
I've started reading this terrific book that is everything I've needed to know for a dozen years'-worth of parenting and if you could possibly get to the library with enough hands to find the right shelf it'd be PERFECT for a pick-me-up.

_Kids, Parents and Power Struggles_
by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka.

(Library call # 649.1 K96 Can you request it online, or over the phone?)

Your strategies are right out of the "Be sure to do this" parts of the book, so it's not that I think your parenting needs this book for improvement. This book gives readers a chance to see, and respond to, all the myriad layers of "Why I'd even think of acting this way" that they face in their children's "Mr. Hyde" moments.

So this book will give you a much-deserved pat on the back, as well as a whole new set of tools for surviving AND ENJOYING each day.

 

Noah is so lucky to have a mom who "rescues him from himself." We all know he is a super wonderful little man who occassionally lets his temper get the better of him. You are helping learn to get that temper under control, and THAT is a wonderful thing!
Grandma Stout

 

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